Thursday, June 23, 2011

Procrastination: not a lesson I learned from my Dad

OK I know it’s a little late, but procrastination has seemed to infiltrate all aspects of my life, not just thesis writing.


Dear Dad,


You are the best! I would not be where I am today without your love, guidance, support, humor, and example.


So I guess since I blogged stories for Mom I’ll share some of the lessons I’ve learned from my Dad. Here are some of the top lessons I’ve learned from the Chief.


Lessons from my Dad:

(I just love this pic, it's from Bear Lake, we were going to practice our open water swimming skills)

- If you’re going to do something, do it right & work hard until you do it right: The value of hard work is something I’ve learned from my dad’s example. Like I’ve probably said before I have NEVER met someone that works harder than my dad. I don’t think he knows what a “day off” or “the weekend” means… He has always worked hard to provide for our family and worked hard at home as well. I cannot thank him enough for working hard and teaching us (his kids) how to work hard.


- Debt free is the best way to be: This one is kind of self-explanatory. This was a lesson learned somewhat by example and by teaching us how to handle our earnings. I say somewhat because I always knew my Dad was “good” at budgeting and saving money, but it wasn’t until my parents went over their will with us that I realized how good my dad was at budgeting his money. So thanks Dad for the lessons about saving money and avoiding debt, they have helped me get through college debt-free.

(This picture has nothing to do with money management, but I had to break up the largest section somehow. This pic is from R&K's wedding day)

Here’s another story/experience I credit to my dad’s money saving lessons: Backstory: Adrienne’s freshman year at BYU, she passed out in the bathroom, had to be taken to the hospital, blah, blah she’s fine had some stitches or something. I remember that the ambulance ‘fee’ was outrageous for a ride down the hill from the dorms to the hospital. Log that away for future reference. Fast forward a year: I’m a senior in high school, after swim practice one afternoon I was ‘horseplaying’ (as we lifeguards like to call it, yes I was a super responsible lifeguard) with a teammate. By some freak accident & my awkwardness I ended up ‘face-planting’ it into the pool deck, smooth I know. Anyway, I had a gash in my forehead that needed hospital care & as I was lying on the pool deck holding a towel on my forehead to control the bleeding one of the lifeguards came up & asked the other guards if they should call for an ambulance. The inner penny-pincher in me freaked out & I almost sat straight up in objection, but I looked at all of them & said, “no, no ambulance, they’re too expensive. I can drive myself”. That last part was a lie, but I didn’t want to pay (er…I didn’t want the parentals to pay) for an ambulance. The Kleinman duo was kind enough to drive me to the hospital. Once my parents arrived, one of the first things I told my dad was, “don’t worry, I told them I didn’t need an ambulance”. I’m sure (scratch that, I’m positive) they would not have cared if I took an ambulance to the hospital, but it was nice when my dad responded, “that’s my girl!”

- Humor: OK I could write about the humor “lessons” I’ve learned from my dad for days (the cricket story, the biggest crack I’ve ever seen story, etc.)! But I will spare you all the migraine of having to read that much small print for so long. Thanks dad for teaching me that laughter really is the best medicine & that sarcasm is an essential part of a well-balanced life.

(Dad flying the 'family' helicopter that we got for Christmas)

- Secret service is the best kind of service: I think I’ve already (in past posts) talked about how awesome my parents are at serving others, but some of my favorite ‘service’ experiences have been when we would serve others secretly. This usually meant leaving something at someone’s door, ringing the doorbell & running away. Thanks for instilling in me the importance of serving others; it has blessed my life in so many ways.

- Being angry at someone is never good (for you or that person): I honestly cannot remember a time when my dad was angry with/at me (i.e. yelling/freaking out…). Don’t get me wrong, I was a stupid kid & there where a number of times my Dad was upset/disappointed with me, but never angry (there was that one time I left my bag on the stairs & he ‘fell’ down the stairs after stepping on it…that was close to angry but mostly just a few choice words…ha). I think the quiet calm response to my stupidity was more instructive than yelling. Thanks Dad, for teaching me that no matter what the situation, “angry” is the last thing you should be.

Thanks Chief, for all the lessons you have taught me & continue to teach me. I have learned some much from the ‘lessons’ you have taught me by word & example. I feel extremely blessed to be your daughter & to have such a funny, faithful, understanding, loving, cool dad.

Thanks! I LOVE you MAN!!

Sunday, May 8, 2011

My Mom (is cooler than your mom...)

Just like everyone else in the world I have the greatest, most awesome, phenomenal mom. She is a beautiful, strong, selfless woman that I will forever look up to, admire & ask for endless advice. Thanks for being the best friend I could ever ask for, but more importantly thank you thank you for being my mom.

So last year I blogged about some of the lessons my Mom has taught me through the years & while I could blog endlessly about the lessons I’ve learned from my Mom I thought I’d share some of my memories of my dear Mother.

Going to the grocery store:

I don’t know if I liked going to the grocery store as a kid, but I guess Mom had to take us crazies with her & I remember going to the store a bunch of times as a kid. My Mom had these trips figured out, not only did she know what she needed from the store & which aisle it was in, but she knew how to make us behave in the store (she’s a genius don’t worry about it). When you usually think of a young mother in the store with 2+ kids under the age of 10 you think “a disaster waiting to happen”. Well we were bribed & it worked, if we were good the whole time in the store we could have a treat (of our own choosing!) once we got to the checkout. This wasn’t an empty bribe either; if we didn’t behave we wouldn’t get our candy bar (yeah there was a time or two when I didn’t get a candy bar). Ever since then I have LOVED going to the grocery store with my mom, but since high school it was more for the chat sessions with my Mom. Thanks for letting me tag along Mom & thanks for the candy bars.

Morning Practice:

During elementary school (the last few years anyway) I had swim team practice in the mornings before school. There was a group of us from school that were on the team so each of our moms took turns driving & picking us up from practice. Since practice was in American Fork we had to go straight to school from the pool. So the mom that picked us up from practice would have breakfast for us when we got in the car. My Mom ALWAYS had the best breakfasts & I’m not even playing favorites. She would always bring us homemade egg mcmuffins, breakfast casseroles, breakfast burritos, quiche! Ah it was amazing (& that’s just breakfast on the road, she is an amazing cook & I miss eating her food…)! A lot better than poptarts & capri-suns. Thanks MOM for feeding me!

Field Trip:

OK so this is NOT one of my favorite memories when it comes to my mom, but it is definitely something I will never forget. My mom being the awesome, selfless, wanting to be involved & help out person that she is would often be a chaperone on elementary field trips. This one particular field trip was in 3rd-4th grade (I can’t remember the exact grade) we went down to Rock Canyon in Provo to look at the rock formations. I don’t really remember anything about the field trip, but what I do remember eats at my heart every day. We were getting on the bus to go home & I was sitting somewhere towards the back & my mom got on the bus & came to sit by me. My mom was about to sit down & being the stupid kid that I was & wanting to be ‘cool’ I told her I didn’t want her to sit by me, I wanted to sit with my friends. She said ok & went & sat by herself towards the front of the bus. I knew as soon as she sat down that I had made a big mistake, but I was too proud &/or embarrassed to fix the problem right then & there. I actually never said anything about it. I can’t believe my short-sightedness, as I told my mom I wanted to sit with my ‘friends’ when I was actually letting my best friend walk to the front of the bus. I’m sorry mom, I don’t even know if you remember this, but if you do I’m sorry. Thanks for putting up with all of the crap I’ve put you through over the years.

Hawaii:

OK let’s get back to the happy stuff. The summer I graduated from BYU, my friend Carly & I decided we were going to take ourselves to Hawaii for graduation. I asked my mom if she wanted to tag along to hang out with Auntie Olly & go to the beach with us. Of course she said yes. Carly & I had a blast going to the beaches & seeing the islands & it was fun when we could convince my mom to go to the beach with us (instead of sewing with Auntie Olly…) but what I loved about this trip was coming home each night & talking to my mom, Auntie Olly, & Uncle Phil. We spent most of the time laughing about the silliest things. Here’s hoping we can take a few more trips to the South Pacific.

Mom jumping off the cliffs in Hawaii :)

Fred Meyers:

This story shows both my Mom’s humor & teaching skills. On one shopping trip to Fred Meyers I was being crazy (I probably didn’t get a treat that day) & going in & out of all of the clothing racks. They were those circular ones. My mom kept telling me to get out of there or she’d leave me. Not listening & thinking I was the smartest little kid around I hid in some of the clothes & put my feet up on the cross bars so she couldn’t see me at all! Of course my giggling gave me away but my Mom decided to teach me a lesson. She moved out of sight & waited to see what I would do. Thinking I was so sneaky I climbed out of my hiding spot & began looking for my Mom, I couldn’t find her…I looked & looked around the area I was in & I couldn’t see her (she could see me). So I decided to go up to the customer service counter, when I got there they asked me if I was lost. Being the smart aleck that I am I told them no, but my Mom was lost. They asked for her name & announced over the PA system that Amy’s lost Mom Moana could find her daughter at the customer service desk. I never ventured far from my Mom’s side at the store again.

Thanks Mom for always being there for me & encouraging me to do my best in all aspects of my life. Thank you for being my mom & my friend, for teaching me how to survive in this world & how to do it gracefully. Thanks for being an amazing example to me & everyone else around you; if I turn out to be half the woman you are I’ll consider myself very lucky. Like I’ve said before, everything that is good about me comes from you (& dad). I would not be where I am today without your constant love & support. I hope that I am giving you the gift that you always ask for because you never want anything for yourself.

I love you, forever & always.

Manuia le Aso o Tina!!


Wednesday, April 20, 2011

Life is Good (Great actually)!!

So since I'm at the writing phase of my thesis I find myself cleaning a lot more, cooking more, organizing stuff, looking at plane tickets, etc. etc. all to avoid the daunting task of writing. So I figured I could avoid writing some more by blogging...so here's an update:

January:
I don't remember much about this month...probably because it was overshadowed by the awesomeness that was Hawaii 2011 (trip 1...):
Selina & I decided we needed a 'break' from life (this was my spring break since I'd be stuck in the lab over my real spring break & this was Selina's summer 2010 vacation, logical right?) & what's better than kickin it on the Big Island with some fam?
Auntie Olly (pictured above w/ Selina) & Uncle Phil are amazing & I LOVE staying with them, it's like a home away from home :)

I've become a HUGE fan of going to HI by myself, I can do whatever I want for however long I want without having the pressure of being the 'tour guide', but when Selina brought up the idea of going to HI I couldn't say no, she's been there before & I knew I wouldn't have to 'plan' our trip.
I <3 Hawaii!!

We went to Keiki Ponds with Marta & these cute kiddos

I had an amazing time! There were a couple swells that came in while we were there so most of the beaches were closed, but Ho'okena was always open (& besides the cliffs that's my favorite beach). We saw humpback whales multiple times at Ho'okena, Selina got hit on multiple times at Ho'okena, & most importantly we got TAN at Ho'okena.

It was great to see heaps of family, go to the beach, get tan, lounge around, cook/eat great food, go to the beach, eat lots of frozen yogurt, learn how to curse in Samoan, play with cousins, go to the beach, & hang out with my sister.
Thanks Selina for the best January spring break ever!!

February:
Also a great month, my house-sitting job ended :( Vicki quit her job & so I wasn't really needed anymore, but she told me to keep the house key so I could house-sit whenever they went on vacation. I was sad because I would miss having 'a place to myself' & I would miss Roxie & Kat-Kat, but at the same time I was traveling so much that it was becoming a hassle trying to work out both schedules.

Speaking of traveling, I spent a week in San Juan, Puerto Rico for the ASLO conference, it was nice to spend a week on a warm island, listening to oceanography talks, meeting incredible people, & getting tan (I think I've become more obsessed about my skin color since I moved to pale country...).
mmm beach

At the end of February I went to Dallas to visit the favorites. Adrienne had just had Brooke & I had some free flights on Southwest so it just made sense to take a long weekend & go to Texas. I had so much fun hanging out with AJ, Adrienne, Brooke & Adam. I acquired an association with the fruit loops (because I would eat them every morning...) so now AJ calls the fruit loops "Amy" & I have been dubbed "Auntie Fruit Loop" which I'm ok with, it's better than Am-slice...
I <3 this kid

& this one as well, so stinking cute!

March:
So it's hard to pick a favorite month so far this year but I think March will be a high contender at the end of the year. I spent the first day of the month in Texas with the faves. Then mid-March I went to DC for Phase III of MSPHDS, I almost decided not to go due to my experiments (i.e. I didn't want to leave my crab babies...), but I have awesome help in the lab (thanks Nicole!) that allowed me to go. And boy was I glad I went :) Not gonna lie, some of the agency visits were long & I wasn't a fan of having to wear business clothes every day, but it was fun to see old friends/colleagues, meet some new ones & see some of DC.

NSF poster presentation nbd

Some of the group at NASA

March also meant that The Green was going to be in the PNW! I have been trying to go to one of their shows for over a year & just missed shows (in HI, UT, & WA) multiple times by just a day or two. I missed them in Seattle because I was in DC, BUT they were playing in Canada the day after I got back. I was lucky enough to get my passport back that day & drive up to BC with Eli & see them (FINALLY!!). These guys were awesome live & super nice after the show. It made me miss Hawaii :(
I <3 The Green

March also meant March Madness (which was fun to watch (JIMMER!!) until the final game...boring) & spring break. I took the 'kids' down to Seattle to the Woodland Park Zoo. As sad as zoos are, this one was pretty good & the animals seemed at least somewhat happy & it wasn't raining so that was a plus.
always a fan of the big cats (thanks childhood)

But I think one of the best (if not the BEST) thing about March is pictured below:
DUAL CITIZENSHIP BABY!!
I'm finally a New Zealand citizen! I've been talking about this for years & after months of paper work, a couple hundred $$ & weeks of waiting it finally happened. Thanks Mom for being born in NZ & not denouncing your citizenship until after I was born. I'm stoked to use this baby in December!

Oh yeah I also turned 25 in March...which means I won a bet that I made with Bishop Dahl back when I was 16. Said bet conversation went something like this (we were probably talking about marriage in young womens):

Me: "I'm not going to get married for a while"
Bishop: "ha, you'll be married before you turn 25"
Me: "wanna bet?"
Bishop: "sure, you'll be married by 25"
Me: "what do I get when I win?"
Bishop: "an iceberg shake"
Me: "sounds good to me"

I wrote the date of the bet on a piece of paper & we signed it & it was in my scriptures for years & I found it in December, but it's gone missing...Over the years whenever I've seen Bishop Dahl he's grabbed my left hand to check for a ring (ha!). The prize for the winner has also increased over the years. So time to pay up Bishop Dahl, I believe you owe me an iceberg shake, a steak dinner & horseback riding.

I almost forgot, March meant hearing/decision time for PhD programs. I was accepted to all 3 programs that I applied for (so crazy, I'm keeping all of the acceptance letters to remind myself when I get turned down numerous times for grants, jobs, etc., that there was a time that I was perfect). After a lot of thought & decision matrices (thanks Cidney! haha) I chose the University of Oregon, go DUCKS!! I'm excited to stay in the PNW & get back to OIMB. It was a hard decision to make but I feel confident that I made the right decision & I am super excited about this next chapter of my life!

April (so far):
I thought this month would be relatively uneventful. It was suppose to be my 'recovery' month from all the traveling the past few months, but plans change :) & I also wanted to keep up with my goal of traveling outside of WA/OR (when I move down there) at least once a month during 2011.

So I hopped on a plane & went to Virginia to visit a friend for a long weekend. Best semi-last minute decision ever! I had a great time & it was fun to see a little bit of Virginia.

Virginia Beach, one of only 2 pictures taken the whole trip...


Life's been keeping me pretty busy, but I wouldn't have it any other way. I feel so lucky/blessed to be doing all the things I'm doing & to have the amazing support that I do from family & friends!

If you read this whole update, props, it was a long one.


Wednesday, January 12, 2011

probably the only blog post from me for 2011

Summary of 2010:I think it was a pretty successful/adventurous year.

Here are the highlights:

- Finished course work, now all I have left is research & writing...

- 149 days in a row at SPMC

- Went to Hawaii...by myself...twice

- Selina came & experienced the PNW

- Robbie & Kami got hitched

- Dan the man left for England to spread the gospel

- Went to San Diego (for free) to present my research

- Made the trek back to Utah a few times


Predictions/Plans for 2011:

It's going to be awesome...stressful at times, but awesome.

Here are some of my plans for the year:

- Go to Hawaii...in like 3 days & probably again once I defend

- Present my research at a conference...in Puerto Rico (ftw=free!)

- Go to Texas to visit the favorites (i.e. AJ & baby; half of this trip will be free, thanks SWA!)

- Spend Christmas in NZ (yes it's going to happen)

- Go to DC for more science/research related shenanigans (also free)

- Finish/Defend my Masters

- Start a PhD...we'll see where this one takes me

I think that pretty much sums it up.


I have a number of goals for 2011 but my main goal/overall plan/motto for the year is to: enjoy life every day & just take it as it comes.

So thanks 2010 for being amazing & here's hoping that 2011 is an even better year!